We are engulfed in words. Facebook ,Twitter, Google in our pocket; the capacity to generate thousand of words- and if we don't like them we delete them and remove tweets and posts. Our celebrities and politicians speak and we hang on every word. And if and when we learn that they have acted or spoken immorally, illegally, cruelly or rashly they withdraw their statements and additionally, their sponsors disavow their (former) clients. Client and promoter assert that words were taken out of context or did not have meaning. We become accustomed to the erasure of words. Sooner or later we end up thinking that words don't really matter.
Judaism disagrees. Words do matter. Every word that you and I share in spoken and written form bears the power to harm, to heal, to destroy and to mend. We need to guard our words. This is why promises occupy such a significant place in Jewish life. Our promises are a shared commitment- a commitment that the ideas expressed by words are very real.
DAVAR is the Hebrew word for ‘word’. Davar also means a ‘thing’. A word is a thing and a thing occupies as much space and time in our universe as a word. So significant is this perspective that the fifth and final volume of Torah is named Devarim which means “these are the words “ (“these are the things”) Moses was speaking about as he anticipated his death and recognized that the Israelites, about to enter the Promised Land, were starting an entirely new journey. His last words needed to be as real for them as the journey upon which they were about to embark. Our words need to be as real as our daily life as we continue along our life’s journey. The first step in making our Devarim real is to articulate them properly; whether offered in prayer, in laughter, in tears, in discussion or in argument.
May we choose our words with care.
Shabbat Shalom.
Rabbi Steve Silberman